Mike and Marc are correct in their comments. I’d add a bit based on my experience. For one thing, you don’t have to remove all the scratches to be hair-whittling sharp. What matters is how keen the edge is.
First off, I think that you (cmyhero) are way, way overdoing the progression, and as the guys said, you needn’t go back to low grits to start, when you’ve already found the apex. You’re just creating new deep scratches unnecessarily. I don’t go below 400-grit except to re-profile a blade, and I take care not to touch the apex with 200-grit or lower. If you insist on starting over, I’d suggest that you start with your 400-grit and use the alternate direction strategy to find and remove deeper scratches. If I’m not happy with the final results of a sharpening, I’ll go back to 800-grit.
My standard sharpening these days is to go 400, 600, 800, 1000, 1500, then 6 and 3 micron film. Done well, this alone will give a pretty nice mirror on your bevels. Generally speaking, the scratches from the prior grit are almost always wiped away after about 20 strokes, but that doesn’t necessarily finish the edge, as the grit that causes the scratch takes bigger chunks out of the apex than the size of the scratch. If I’m working toward a “hair-whittling” edge, I’ll do two, three or even four times as many strokes with each stage to refine the edge. And I will stay with edge-leading (downward) strokes only, until I get to the film. Edge-trailing strokes tend to break away bigger pieces of the apex. A final stropping helps to put a final polish on the edge and any of the pastes or emulsions will work. I’ve had good luck with hardwood strops, but any of the offerings will work. I just loaded a new set of leather strops with 2.5 and 1.0 micron paste, but haven’t had a chance to try it yet, except on a mule I use for experiments. As fresh leather, I started out at -2 dps, but had to drop to -1 dps before it reached the apex.
I don’t use my ceramics anymore, as they aren’t as uniform as diamond film.
Try not to overthink your process, as it will simply frustrate you while it should be satisfying you. If you’re really new at this, keep it simple and be patient, as there is a learning curve in achieving the optimum results.